This week has been National Organ Donation Week here in the UK, so a special week to promote awareness of Organ Donation.
I’ve been deeply affected by transplant and organ donation now for over nine years and it’s a cause dear to my heart.
On Monday I was asked to do an interview with Heart FM radio for the South East. It was good to help and they played clips from my interview throughout the afternoon, so hopefully many people may have heard it and it may make a small difference.
It’s nearly time for the anniversary of my transplant and each year I think of all the wonderful things in my life that organ donation has given me.
This year’s highlight has to be the birth of our granddaughter, little Darcy. I wasn’t ever supposed to see her, but yet thanks to my donor, I’ve shared so many special moments with her already and she’s only 5 months old.
I’ve also been able to see my gorgeous grandson Freddie grow from a baby, watching all his first steps to toddlerhood. This year I’ve spent so much time with him and he chats away, his speech growing daily. We have so many lovely conversations together and make up our own games to play. Being a grandma is a wonderful thing and feels so special and such a privilege in my position.
We’ve managed a few breaks away to Norfolk and the Lake District with the family, which has felt so special too and given us many special and priceless moments to share. We don’t travel abroad any more, due to my health, but we continue to enjoy visiting the places we love and exploring all that’s around us. Sometimes we forget the beauty that’s right under our noses and don’t see it. I still feel appreciative of all that’s there to see and do, from simple things like watching the birds, seeing the flowers growing in the garden and just having a simple cup of coffee thanks to my donor.
Rob and I are still involved with our Transplant Support Group at Papworth, helping to support other transplant patients and working on projects with the transplant team. This will always be a cause dear to our hearts and feels important to us. Our hospital has moved premises this year, which has been a big upheaval and a time of uncertainty, but we are pleased that we now have a wonderful, brand new and state of the art hospital for my continuing care and that of other fellow patients.
I’ve also been enjoying a period of steady health after having had the pneumonia, sepsis and blood clot earlier in spring. Luckily my local hospital moved so swiftly and I’ve been able to make a good recovery with the help of oxygen.
Ted, our cocker spaniel, is also a big part of our lives. He will be nearly four soon, we feel like we’ve always had him and he just slots into our family life. He often comes with us on holidays and days out and just adores the grandchildren. Sarah and Oli have a new cocker spaniel puppy, Finn. He’s such a character and a live wire, but quickly becoming another established member of the family.
Thanks to Organ Donation we are living a pretty normal family life and appreciating all the good things. We’re busy with projects such as decorating and the garden too, just normal family stuff, but that is what organ donation is all about, just to enable us to have a normal and fulfilled life.
I’m still working on my next book too. If things had gone to plan, it should have been finished by now, but all my serious health issues of the last few years halted things and actually changed the course of how this story was going. I’m still working hard on it and have a first draft manuscript to work on now and I’m so pleased I’ve reached this stage.
However, I want to do a serious overhaul of this draft, as my situation health wise changed dramatically from my original plans and ideas and as it’s another memoir, I want to reflect the true essence of all that’s happened so my new book may help others in similar situations with declining health. So watch this space, it’s still a work in progress, but again I feel privileged I’m in a position to be writing and doing something I love.
Organ Donation is the greatest gift and it not only benefits the recipient, but the benefits ripples out amongst the recipient’s family, friends and community. There is no price you can put on it.
The law will be changing on organ donation from an ‘opt in’ system to an ‘opt out’ one. It doesn’t really matter which system is in place, it will be family who have to say ‘yes’ or ‘no’ if you were to be in the unfortunate position to donate your organs, so it’s most important to let your family know your wishes whatever way you feel about organ donation.
All I can say is that Organ Donation is the most wonderful thing and that me and my family are forever grateful to my donor and their wonderful family who said ‘yes’ at the most difficult time in their lives.
Thanks so much for reading 😄